Mentally Orgasmic

Can a man and woman be friends without having sex? Many people find this scenario hard to believe but yes they can. A man and a woman can be friends as long as they don’t cross that boundary line. Now I am not saying that they can’t be attracted to each other. They can either share a single attraction or a mutual attraction in the relationship.  Sex can either make or break the relationship because they not only know that person’s hopes and fears but they now know that person up close and personal along with their desires. That alone can kill a relationship because how can you look at that person the same. Can you really feel comfortable looking your friend in the eye as they talk about someone new that they really like or hear about a recent sexual experience?  Now if you were in a previous relationship and parted ways on good terms you can still only be friends as long as you two do not cross that line. Now if your ex was great in bed and you two are now just friends it ma...

As you may have noticed, each week is color coded to indicate the level of urgency.  Green being the least severe and obviously  Red being the most critical. That first weekend in Sept. is a make or break weekend. The summer is coming to an end and there’s at least one more big party/BBQ weekend. Labor Day. You now have the perfect excuse for your 1st ‘date’ like meeting. Invite her out to a BBQ. A party. Beach. Something. Use the holiday to YOUR advantage.  Her last big event of the summer ending with you is a plus. No one really wants to hang around the house, so if she doesn’t have plans and you seem sincere, she’s probably going. Remember it IS a long weekend, no need to be in her face first thing Tuesday. A text to see how she’s doing is cool. No date the following weekend either. Just stick to building up a rapport via conversation. Slow and steady. No need to overdo it unless she’s giving off signs. Plan something the following week. Things go well? Start throw...

Now let us get down to what the different colors mean when you are selecting roses for you date: Red – Love, Beauty, Romantic love, Sincere love, I love you. Red Dark – Unconscious beauty Red Single – I love you Deep Burgundy – Unconscious beauty White – Purity, Innocence, Silence, Secrecy, Humility, Youthfulness, Heavenly, “I am worthy of you” Pink – Appreciation, “Thank you”, Grace, Perfect happiness, “Please believe me”, Admiration, Dark Pink – Appreciation, Gratitude, “Thank you” Light Pink – Admiration, Sympathy, Gentleness, Joy, Sweetness, Grace, Gladness Yellow – Joy, Friendship, Delight, Promise of a new beginning, I care, Welcome back, Jealousy Yellow with Red tip – Friendship, Falling in love Orange – Desire, Enthusiasm Red and White – When given together they signify unity Red and Yellow – Happy feelings Peach - Appreciation, Closing the deal, Let’s get together, Sincerity, Gratitude Pale Peach – Modesty Coral – Desire Lave...