Mentally Orgasmic

I nsecure Women want to control the man in their life. Secure Women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Insecure Women check you for not calling them. Secure Women are too busy to realize you hadn't. Insecure Women are afraid to be alone. Secure Women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. Insecure Women ignore the good guys. Secure Women ignore the bad guys. Insecure Women make you come home. Secure Women make you want to come home. Insecure Women leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Secure Women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. Insecure Women worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Secure Women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Insecure Women try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Secure Women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the ...

C losure is what many of us seek at the end of a relationship but many times we are left to wonder what went wrong? We are left to wonder if it was something that you did to them or maybe someone better came along. The feeling of not knowing can be a hard pill to swallow. It can emotionally devastating for some. You have been given you relationship "Pink Slip" but you have no idea WHY? I fell in love once over a phone call. As simple as that sounds that was all that it took for him to have my heart. What was special about the call was that it was Valentines Day and me and this person had plans for that evening. We spoke that morning but later that evening he was a no show. He did not return any of my calls. I am used to not having a date for Valentines but I thought that this year would be different. As the days went on I became upset because I had not heard from him.  By weeks end I received a call from an inmate in a correctional facility. It was him. He called to t...

T he anticipation of wanting him inside me was so high that I couldn't control myself and masturbated before he arrived at my suite. I knew the moment when I saw him that neither one of us wouldn't be able to keep our hands to ourselves yet alone our tongues. This man's kisses were so passionate and succulent. I don't know how many times I came in my panties from his moist kisses. The doorbell rang as I was getting myself together. He stepped inside my doorway with his long tall frame. "Damn it!!!!" I said to myself. He kissed me and asked how was my day. As usual he always makes it better when he arrives to sooth the pain away. He picked me up and carried me to the bedroom. I felt his hard on in his pants. Damn, all I wanted to do was taste it and I couldn't express it enough. I unzipped his pants and pulled down his boxers and placed his long hard shaft ever so gently inside the wet walls of my mouth. Ummmmm....... pre-cum the best shit and I couldn...

M any women have never had or are not sure that they have had an orgasm. These women are the ones that I call orgasmic-ally deprived. Yes, If you have never had one I blame you! How is your partner suppose to know how to satisfy you if you don’t know what you want or need to be satisfied. It’s like the blind leading the blind if you ask me. Don’t worry because I am going to help you discover “Your Sexy”. Step #1: So you may be asking yourself “How is she going to help me find my sexy”? I am going to start with this simple question (but first I need you to stand in front of a full length mirror naked): “Do you think you are sexy”? Some of you are not going to be so quick to answer yes because you are only looking at your flaws. Stretch marks , cellulite, and that little belly that you have is still sexy to a lot of men! I need for you to focus on the things that make you as a woman sexy whether its the thickness of your thighs, the curvature of your hips, the smallness of your w...

A s many of you know an Orgasm is the climatic peak that one reaches during sex. Recently I came across a blog post on “ Nakedwithsockon ” discussing how men can fake orgasm.  This left me with the question “Can Men Have Orgasms”? It’s something that I have never discussed nor have I ever heard a man talk about having one.  Upon reading the blog I learned that even though a man ejaculates at the end of sex does not mean that he had an orgasm (yes ladies men can fake orgasms that is if they know what one is). “I know the question running though most people’s minds right now is:  “Why would a man need to fake it?” Same reason women do, to protect their partner’s feelings. Whenever I talk to my female friends about this topic it always seems to come as a big shock that a woman can be wack in the sack. Despite popular belief, just being there is NOT enough. Just as men can be a lame lay so can the fairer sex” (www.nakedwithsocks...