ORAL LOVEMAKING

It’s 2009 and I can’t believe that men still don’t perform oral. That’s almost as bad as the females that I meet that never had an orgasm. Deep down inside if a man has not tried it he truly wants to. It’s just that he doesn’t know how. I know that there are some women that do not like to be eaten out. This however can be an enjoyable experience if it is done properly. 

There have been many conformist to this idea once they have had a partner that knew what they were doing. So you already know that I am going to tell you how to get it done. First you need to start off by finding what she ate for the day. I know that you may be asking why this is important? Remember the saying “You are what you eat” well this holds true when performing oral. The bodily fluids that you secret can contain flavors of things that you ate earlier in the day. 

That means if your daily diet consists of a lot of alcohol, garlic, onions, asparagus and you smoke it can cause you to leave a bad taste in his/her mouth. I would suggest eating plenty of fruit and drinking lots of water each day to sweeten your juices. Try eating lots of pineapple, papaya, cranberry, melons, mangoes, apples, grapes. These fruits are high in natural sugars and offset the is bitter taste. That does clarify “she tastes like a peach” doesn’t it.

I would start with stimulation but I will safely assume that you already have that down packed. Now before you start I need for you to remember that this area is sensitive and the most sensitive part in this area is the clitoris. Pressure is everything when performing oral. She may or may not like intense pressure on her clit. Listen to her moans pay attention to her body movements. If she is moving away it could be because the pressure is to intense so change the pressure. Ladies I also need for you to tell your partner how much pressure that you like. You need to tell them either “more pressure” or “light pressure” so that they know what is stimulating you.

Start by spreading her legs and placing the palms of your hands against her thighs and use your thumbs to spread her outer lips (ladies you should either be clean shaven which means no stubble or you need to be cut close enough to where your partner is not going to gag on a hair). Lick and kiss the area surrounding the clitoris. If you need to expose the clitoris with your thumbs lightly lift the clitoral hood to expose the clitoris. With your tongue apply light pressure to the tip of the clitoris. Kiss and suck the sides of the clitoris. Gently kiss the clitoris. As she becomes more aroused insert your middle and index finger into the vagina. Move the fingers in a “come here” motion. Take the tip of the tongue and flick it rapidly back and forth along the top of the clitoris. Then move your tongue up and down the shaft of the clitoris. 

As she is nearing orgasm insert your tongue in her vagina and move your tongue in a circular motion. As she is cumming move your tongue back and forth. Feel her vaginal muscles try and pull your tongue deep inside her. Ladies if you need to grab the back of your partners head but don’t try to bury their face in the vagina so that they can not breathe. Your partner still needs to breathe. Use one hand the grab the head and use the other to grip the sheets. Depending on the strength of the orgasm you should be able to grab the back of your partner’s head and slightly raise your hips and ride your partners tongue.

Depending on the woman she may actually cum or as some men may say “bust-a-nut”. She will secrete a creamy looking substance that looks like semen from the vagina. She can even be a squirter as well. Yes, she can bust in your eye to. I want you to know that this all natural. You don’t have to perform oral on her until she cums. Oral can be performed right before intercourse. Its can be most arousing to bring her to the brink of orgasm and then to stop oral to begin intercourse. The same techniques described above can also be used during the 69 position as well. The importance of the female orgasm may be of importance to men because (depending on the woman’s orgasm) during the female orgasm her jaws and throat may become more relaxed so that she can deep throat.

I hope that these techniques have helped you to become more aware of the female and male orgasm. I know that the men may be wondering where their instructional is for the females on how to perform oral on a man but right now I think that Karrin Steffans latest book (which includes pictures) is instructional enough. Besides that techniques coming from me is classified!